He said Walter Benjamin that “He who pays attention to manners but rejects lying is similar to someone who, although he dresses in fashion, does not wear a shirt.”
Therefore, in complex societies it is very difficult not to lie. Because if you always tell the truth, you go naked. And that is precisely why it is so difficult to know what is normal.
Because what we consider normal is what we identify as habitual, But our perception is not always capable of capturing all of reality, much less what remains in darkness, what others hide from themselves.. Therefore, behaviors become more common as they become more and more public.
Lies as a way to lubricate society
Erving Goffman was a Canadian sociologist and anthropologist who developed the so-called theory of impression management or control, that is, dramatized performances of social being with the purpose of controlling the impressions of others. As he himself said:
It is probably no mere historical accident that the original meaning of the word person is mask. It is rather a recognition of the fact that, more or less consciously, always and everywhere, each of us plays a role... It is in these roles that we know each other; It is in these roles where we know ourselves.
In the end, it turns out that lying is wrong, but not always, and we can also lie and even lie to ourselves if it is not noticed, if it goes unnoticed. This arms escalation of the sophistication of sincerity and Lies are the result of an increasingly complex interaction with other people, with the community.. You can expand on all this in the following video:
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What is normal is only what others let you see about themselves: that is, you don't know what is normal.
was originally published in
Xataka Science
by
Sergio Parra
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